In Elden Ring it’s possible to reset and redistribute your character’s attribute points, but you can’t do that right at the beginning of the game, because it’s necessary that you arrive in Liurnia to reset your points.
How to reset character attributes in Elden Ring
You must have defeated the boss Rennala inside the lucaria academy. After defeating this boss, you can pay her a Larval Tear (rare in-game item) to reset her stats and redistribute them. Note that you cannot go below the default starting attributes your class had. Check the location of the boss in the image below:
Unless you’re in a hurry, you’ll only get to Raya Lucaria Academy after dozens of hours in Elden Ring, after clearing Stormveil Castle and defeating the Godrick boss. The Academy is in the region you unlock after that, north of the game’s starting point, also called the “blue” region by some players, as opposed to the “red” region found east of the starting point, which is also very harder.